COURAGEOUS MASCULINITY

I’m glad you’re here, looking for other men you can develop relationship with.

I’m glad you are here because it means you are reversing cultural messages that we need to figure it out on our own. That’s some bullshit and I’m calling it. Brotherhoods were created because we know the importance of brothers coming together. 

I want you to succeed and to me, that means figuring out how YOU want to define YOUR OWN MASCULINITY. Many us of are realizing our own masculinity needs to be redefined. What an opportunity for us and what a challenge, right? We are finding it no longer serves us or our partnerships, marriages, and friendship to live in our childhood conditioning of what it meant to be a man. We are being called into something new and if you are here, you understand that. 

Aren’t you longing to be it all? To feel the power of your passion driving you confidently in your business, in your relationships, in the bedroom? To also feel your tenderness, your ability to embody the strength it takes to hold space for your partner, your friend, your kid with compassion and love? And then to also feel your courageous vulnerability needed to connect to your loved ones? To not be a bystander to your experience, but part of it? To feel your masculinity in all its abilities to be in a myriad of contexts we find ourselves in everyday? Imagine being able to show up in all these different situations, from the office to the home, from the meeting room, to the bedroom, with confidence, attuned to yourself and others so you can navigate relationships more effectively, more generously, more easefully?

Unlike many of our fathers, this modern world is making it so men have the ability to be so much more for ourselves, our wives, husbands, and partners, our kids, and our community. And it all starts by unlocking who you are. Not who you think you are, but who you actually are.

Who are you underneath the programming we’ve suffered, that has robbed of us parts of ourselves? No wonder many of us men live with all sorts of mental health issues but silently suffer. We are programmed to do that. There was no education for us to learn healthy ways of relating to ourselves and to women.

But no more. Not now that you’ve found this page. I’m a testament to boldly calling in something new and stepping into the possibilities of living a more fulfilling, honest, and authentic life. COURAGEOUS MASCULINITY, the ability to define for myself who I am, based on how I want to live in harmony with myself and with others. To find better ways to tend to my emotions so I don’t have outbursts of frustation and rage because I’ve let so much fester in my body. To find better ways to communicate what’s happening for me in my relationship so there is more connection and romance than disconnection and disappointment. To connect to my sexuality and attune to the wants of my body so that I can bring that energy into the bedroom and feel the ecstacy of giving and receiving in the flow of both my and my partner’s fulfillment. HOW GOOD DOES THIS SOUND?

It’s possible. So you just have to ask yourself, what kind of man do you want to be in the modern world? 

This is the beautiful question many of our fathers did not get the chance to ask. And it can make us better to ourselves, to our partners, families, and friends. 

I’ve been asking this question for 18 years and have found my own answers that allow me to live comfortably in my own skin while being comfortable to share myself wholly and authentically in my romantic relationship, friendships, family relationships, and in my work. 

It would be an honor to be your guide and walk alongside you as we discover how to embody your own authentic masculinity.